Writings on divorce, grief, and uncertainty.
After They Leave: Divorce and co-parenting grief in the hours you didn't plan for
If you're co-parenting after divorce, you may already know this feeling: quiet moments where your grief is louder than usual and catches you by surprise. Hand-offs, holidays, and unexpected schedule changes. Or just those in between times when a memory is triggered, and you want to reach for something that is no longer there. A reflection on co-parenting grief, the time alone you didn't plan for, and how to gently meet the quiet in a new way.
When the Season Changes Before You’re Ready: Reflections on when grief comes back, and your body knows before you do
If seasonal shifts have felt heavier since your divorce, you're not imagining it. This post explores why transition is loss, why your body registers grief before your mind catches up, and how to be a little gentler with yourself when the outer season doesn't match the one you're living inside.
For the Queer Expat Living With Uncertainty
When safety feels conditional, the body remembers. This reflection explores how global instability impacts queer expats and displaced individuals—and how self-belonging can become a steady place to land.
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